Why Am I So Scared to Do the Work?

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The running theme in my consultations this past week was:

"I'm SCARED!" 

"What if I f*#@ it up?" 

"If I haven't been able to get to where I want to go up until this point, why will it happen now?"

"What if I invest all this time and money and realize you and I aren't the right fit?"

These are TOTALLY valid questions. 

After all, the brain will look for every excuse to stay in the comfort of your discomfort. 

But here's a little secret:

If you embark on this journey with me, I WANT YOU TO BE SCARED.

Not because I'm a mean coach, but because GROWTH AND CHANGE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE SCARY.

It's safe to say that most of us want the ideal relationship, healthy body, thriving business, and financial freedom...

But the reason some or all of those things aren't coming into fruition is because of your THINKING. 

Your thoughts create your results. 

ALWAYS.

And if you've habitually been thinking:

"dating is hard,"

"my body will never be perfect,"

"who am I to build my own business?"

...the likelihood is you'll struggle in those areas.

As proud as I was of my small but steady life-coaching business over the last two and a half years, it wasn't until I actually applied the tools and got a business coach to help MANAGE MY THINKING around raising my prices and asking for a longer time commitment from my clients.

My Irish Catholic guilt kicked in about charging more for my services, but then I realized:

I'm DOING MY CLIENTS A BIGGER SERVICE BY ASKING THEM TO MAKE A BIGGER INVESTMENT IN THEMSELVES.

And I know this because when I made the bigger financial investment and time commitment with my own coach, the more determined and committed I was to not mess around, and CREATE THE ABUNDANT RESULTS that have now BEAUTIFULLY unfolded over the last two months. 

It is SO scary and uncomfortable to rewire your brain to think differently. 

But isn't it ALSO UNCOMFORTABLE TO THINK ABOUT BEING IN THE SAME UNSATISFYING PLACE, 6 months or a YEAR FROM NOW?

Staying idle and committing to change are BOTH SCARY.

But one of those choices will bring SO MUCH MAGIC, FREEDOM, ABUNDANCE AND HAPPINESS. 

So why not choose the scary path with the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow???

Irish Catholic Guilt-Free to BOOT!

XOXO

Claire

PS I HAVE TWO SLOTS LEFT FOR MY ONE ON ONE COACHING PROGRAM.  You have a little less than 4 months of 2018 to finish it off with a BANG.  What are you waiting for?   Email me to schedule a session to scare the shite out of yourself:) 

 

 

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